Layered looks with lots of (stain-resistant) personality
I’ve curated a fall wardrobe that can handle any weather, pack down into a carry-on, keep me both warm and cool, and also look presentable enough to make a great first impression.
This is a full breakdown of my recent travel expenses, with the honest numbers behind my 30th birthday trip, my bachelorette party, and a few local adventures from this Summer and early Fall.
How your email (sometimes) finds me.
Travel is a core tenet of my identity. I’ve prioritized it in every season of my adult life because it lights a fire in me that cannot be replicated anywhere else. I’ve also been working some iteration of a full-time job (sometimes a job and a half) since I graduated university. So if you’re also living with wanderlust while holding down a more traditional work/life balance, this post is for you.
Low-quality placeholder pic until the professional ones are edited :’)
Newlywed bliss is real, y’all.
Never turn down the chance to sit on a dock at sunset with your homies.
This Letchworth trip was the last hurrah for my 30th birthday, the final candle to blow out at the start of this new decade. I turned 30 on May 30th, but only this past weekend did the celebrations finally end. For two whole months, I’ve been reminded of how much love there is for me to receive.
I’ve navigated my chronic illness and the powerful misconceptions that come with it for years now. In honor of Chronic Disease Awareness Day (July 10), it’s important to me that I explain the power of your words, your misconceptions.
It’s no secret that I crave a life full of adventure, but I bookend every adventure with long-ish periods of gentle recharge.
That’s because I live with a chronic illness called ulcerative colitis.
Last week, I had a routine procedure to check the status of my disease, and I’m happy to report that I’ve officially hit 5 years of remission!!
To celebrate this massive milestone, I took the week off from writing.
Instead, here’s a previous post where I share what it’s like to live with chronic illness and how I travel the world in spite of my diagnosis.
I’m so proud of how I’ve navigated these past 5 years. I’ve learned to honor my body in all of its states. I’ve learned to be vulnerable and transparent, to lean on my support systems, and to mitigate inflammation like an absolute champ.
Enjoy this post from the archive, and I’ll be back next week.
Thanks for being here, and 3 cheers for 5 years! :)
Originally published: December 9, 2025
I’m writing this post to celebrate and validate other people who live with chronic illness.
I also wanted to address questions I’ve received from the healthy people in my life because, whether it stems from concern or ignorance, we often attach limitations to people with chronic health conditions.
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